Do you believe in your dream? If the answer is yes then you are on your way to success. However if you doubt yourself and your dream it will be a difficult road to travel.
Many people believe that if others believe in them that this is what will make their dreams come true. Why would that be? No one else can live your life, no one else can make things happen for you, only You can so that. Believing that another has so much control over your life is what holds you back from developing the dream.
Yes, it is a great feeling to have someone believe in you, but if you do not believe in yourself you will not strive to make your life your own. Living your life for others will not make you happy. Women are usually the ones who fall into this abyss. They have confidence in themselves from a child as they grow, as long as they have nurturing parents. Then they meet someone who starts to tell them one thing or another that will make them better, and before you know it they are no longer living their life, they are following what this person is telling them. This may happen for many years before they realize that they are lost.
Don't get drawn down this hole where your dream gets lost in the shuffle. Someone offers you advice or their opinion, that's fine. Say thank you and them follow what You want not what they think is right for you.
Every being on their journey has the right to live the life they want. All they have to do is Believe and it is theirs. Open your eyes and your heart to see the possibilities that lay ahead of you. Let go of the negative nellies and follow your path. Only You can make it happen, remember that. And only you can stop it too.
Letting go of negative people in your life can be hard, as sometimes they are family, loved ones. You have to either leave them behind to have the life you want or stick with them and be unhappy. You don't have to completely eliminate them from your life, you can just not include them when making your plans. You will find that they will just fall away naturally or they may even change when they see what you have accomplished.
Reiki can help with learning to let go of the negative thoughts. Namaste
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