When you commit to Loving yourself, you're saying it's ok to be me. There is only one you and if you try to be something that you are not, then you will have an unhappy and unhealthy life. Let go of the stress of trying to fit in, you will feel so much happier in your life and will attract people and happenings that make you happy too. You cannot go out looking for happiness as it is already in you. All you have to do is sit still, be calm, let go of all thoughts and feel it. If you have a hard time doing this, start by thinking of something that made you very happy, the happiest you have ever been. By bringing this thought to the forefront of your mind, you will begin to attract more happiness. It doesn't matter if you are broke, or lost your job, in a bad relationship or anything that to the outside looks sad. Those things will change once you find your true being. So many of us just try to fit in and become miserable, why? If we are all the same then what need is it to be here. We are all unique and your uniqueness is what makes you you. Stop being like the Jones's and live the life you are meant to live. Not sure what that is, take a step each day to be happy and love your self. No one can make you happy, nothing can make you happy, only You can do that. Dance like nobody's watching! I love that saying.